This relationship advice for women is ethical. Did you notice that I put the word "manipulate" in inverted commas? I would never condone manipulation, especially emotional manipulation. However, some of these techniques are so effective, it might feel like manipulation to you. I assure you, my wife uses these techniques on me and I'm fully aware of it when she does it. However, I can't help but feel compelled to do what she says, purely because I enjoy it. I don't feel like my arm's been twisted behind my back. I literally feel happy to do her bidding. Here's how you can make your man feel the same way too.
1. Don't Ask, Tell
This is the key to making your man simply do something. By telling him, you're commanding him to do something. You don't have to command him like your above him, simply let him know in a neutral tone that you want him to do something.
What's the difference between these two commands: "take out the trash now," vs. "whenever you're ready, take the trash out." The first is more direct and the second is not as direct. They communicate the same thing across, but if you heard the second one, wouldn't you still feel like you were being respected?
2. "What Do You Think?"
Some women just go on and ask their man to do something and don't care about what he thinks or how he feels about the situation. By simply showing some consideration for the man and how he feels about what he's doing, you're showing empathy.
In every sense of the word, empathy is a good thing to have in a relationship, because it shows that you want to at least try and understand your man. So ask his opinion first and he'll be more likely to do it.
3. "Forget About It"
This is reverse psychology at its finest. I hate this technique but I love it at the same time. My wife is a real exponent of this technique and really, it's how I started dating her in the first place, but that's a whole different story.
By telling me to something and then telling me, "you know what, forget about it", she takes away the decision from me when I'm dawdling, making me more likely to want to do it.
This relationship advice for women is sneaky, but definitely not unethical. You can use these techniques to make your man do things for you without making him resent you for it.
Jack Keys is a married to his wife, Elle and has a beautiful baby daughter with her. His psychology degree, combined with his real-life experience in his own marriage has turned him into an accidental relationship adviser amongst his friends and colleagues.
He specializes in relationship advice for women and shares his knowledge with women who want to strengthen their relationship with their husband.
His latest 10-page report talks about how to get more love and respect from your husband, written especially for women who are finding that their man is falling out of love with them.
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