It's one of the most common scenarios out there. You know a woman who you find really attractive, and more than anything else, you want to make her fall in love with you. You keep on thinking about her, how beautiful she is, how good you feel when you are around her and you realize that you are falling pretty hard for her. So, you dig in to your bag of tricks and you start doing all of the things that you just know will make her feel the same way for you. There's only one problem.
Nothing seems to be working for you.
In fact, the harder you try to make her fall in love with you, it seems like she is getting further and further away from you. That's okay, you are confident that you can make her feel the same way about you. So, you do a little more and a little more to try and win her over. Still, nothing seems to be working.
Now, you are frustrated. Actually, you are more than frustrated. You are disappointed. You start to wonder whether or not you will ever be able to make her fall for you. But, it does not look like it is happening at all.
What can you do when you want to make a woman fall for you, but nothing seems to be working?
If you keep on trying and trying, all you are going to do is make the situation worse for yourself. With some exceptions here and there, most women find it to be a big turn off when a man is obviously trying to hard to win them over. And if you are not just trying to hard, but you are doing things that make her feel like you are invading on her life or in her space, you can count on her wanting very little to do with you.
One of the most POWERFUL things that you can do at this moment, is to pull away from her. Look, if you keep on pushing, eventually you are going to push her away for good. The reason why pulling away is so powerful, is because it is the OPPOSITE of what most guys will do. Most guys will try to keep coming up with things to try and impress her, and eventually they will just turn her off.
Don't be a fool for love, you don't have to...
If you pull away, then you are going to at least be saving yourself from acting like a fool, trying to convince her that she should fall for you. Another thing happens though when you pull away in a situation like that. She will start to wonder WHY you pulled away. She will start to think about you, and probably even do things to try and pull you back. When that happens, it's no longer just a one sided thing. And that is how you are going to be able to make her fall in love, even if right now nothing seems to be working.
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