This relationship advice for women might make some of you laugh, but I kid you not, I do become a better husband with each and every month at that time of the month. Where most women end up tearing the head off their husband, my wife has figured out three, clever ways to use this emotionally unstable time of the month to make our relationship stronger and harder to break. These techniques do take some practice but if you really put your heart into it, you can also use these skills to make your man more loyal to you.
1. "Watch Out For Me"
As everyone knows, when you have your PMS, you usually feel a bit more emotionally fragile than you normally would. Things that wouldn't normally bug you suddenly feel like a big deal and your husband can feel like your enemy.
What Elle does is tell me to watch out for her. She literally warns me that she's going to act differently. Some women simply don't warn their man and unleash their full terror on him. It's the worst way for a relationship to end, really. I appreciate her telling me and I'm more wary as a result.
2. "Don't Believe Anything I Say"
This is a bit extreme, but it has caused some crises to be averted in the past. My wife is one of those women who, when she's having her PMS, says things she wouldn't normally say. There was this one time when I was caught unawares by it and she told me she wanted to break up.
The scary thing was, she wasn't flying off the handle or angry. She was dead calm when she said it. I told her, "I don't believe you." After that, she did end up crying over it, having nearly lost me because her hormones were messing with her feelings.
3. "Yell At Me"
This technique is also pretty dangerous, or so that's what I thought when Elle first told me to do it. She told me, "Since I'm more prone to yelling at you, please yell at me too." I thought that that was just asking for death, but I tried it anyway.
Her logic was that by letting me yell at her, I would toughen her up and not make her react so emotionally herself either. It would also give me a chance to vent at her and would give both of us a chance to communicate.
This relationship advice is certainly not what you would see in any magazine. I hope that you do at least consider it. Your man will not know what hit him.
Jack Keys is a married to his wife, Elle and has a beautiful baby daughter with her. His psychology degree, combined with his real-life experience in his own marriage has turned him into an accidental relationship adviser amongst his friends and colleagues.
He specializes in relationship advice for women and shares his knowledge with women who want to strengthen their relationship with their husband.
His latest 10-page report talks about how to get more love and respect from your husband, written especially for women who are finding that their man is falling out of love with them.
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