Forcing Someone to Love You

Love is a very powerful thing. you will do things that you have never thought that you could do. Love can either make you happy or make you sad or worse it will make you insane, the kind of love that consumes you. Have you ever experienced loving someone and that someone doesn't love you back? It is painful and so depressing. I know that every person has experienced it, and I know how you feel.

Forcing someone to have the same feelings for you is really tough because love is not something where you can jut pick it up, put it in your heart and then instantly that person loves you back. Love happens when you least expect it. Sometimes, you don't even know that you already love someone. You can never force someone or anyone to love you back. I know how painful it is, I too have experienced loving someone and expecting that person that he feels the same thing as what I feel for him. I was really devastated and I really wanted to know why but it was not worth it, he already loves someone and I don't want to become a person that will destroy the love that they have.

It is not worth your time and effort to indulge yourself to someone who won't be able to return the love that you feel for them. The more you force someone to love you the more that person will not love you, haven't you noticed? When you were a child, when your mother will force you to eat your food, you will not eat your food. If at present you are doing everything so that a certain person will love you back please stop it, you will just get hurt and it will hurt you more if you keep on forcing yourself to someone.

Here's an advice, try focusing your attention to different things or activities that will occupy your time, for example indulge in a new sport, spend time with your family and friends or better yet meet new people at work maybe? At school? Do not limit yourself open up to the world and you will see, a lot more beautiful things out there. There might be other people out there ready to love you completely where you don't need to force them, who accepts you for who you are and loves you totally. Just open your eyes and maybe you'll see you might be focusing yourself on one person and not notice those people who loves you.

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