Mr. conclusion, Ms. or right you be enthusiastic Ms.

Many men and women tell me they want to mate in their lives. Only some want to be alone. While others make their lives easier. While many others just want to have someone with them to share their lives. How much you have considered the possibility of sharing yourself? We believe in deeper levels, we as humans, provide connection and be alone. However, I believe that the right to communicate with someone else, we must first communicate with ourselves. You should know about us at all levels, and to accept and love there. Not just me who thinks this, ask any trainers dating or relationship, and will tell you himself.

When we take time to learn what is important to us, to take advantage of our hearts and our emotions, we have quite a lot for someone else. When we are ready to give all of ourselves with honesty, trust, and then we also attract people willing to do the same. When we live our lives fully embracing all that life has to offer, we send a message of happiness and gratitude to the world. The universe responds. The attention is growing stronger in your life, even if your concern on lack, need, and loneliness, instead of knowing, acceptance, and passion then don't be surprised with the results.

Alone chance to embrace the beauty of who you are, see gift for yourself and enjoy your company to find what makes you tick, to discover what you are passionate about more in this life.

Being a gift of yourself to show what it means to live life either alone or with another. If you don't enjoy your company, how in the world as you expect someone else?

If you're bored and lonely and watch joy at this moment, regardless of what or who you're with, then what do you think someone else makes the change for you? When I was clear about who you are and what is important to you, and put attention on these things, your life will be fulfilling and rewarding.

When I was a teen age, receive a card with the following line as part of the poem, "If you are not happy with what you've got, how can more be satisfied?" a lot of sense to me, was a reminder for me throughout these years were grateful to whom I and whenever I find myself complaining.

Are you excited about sharing yourself with others who you, or are you desperate to share your life with someone? Do you see the difference? At first you this whole alive, very attractive, confident that he would wait for the right one. In case you are sad, desire and that need to be willing to take anyone. Who would you rather bee-attractive and confident or needy and desperate? Conversely any kind of mate want to attract? Love will find you are seeking.

If you're not happy with yourself and your life, how can you attract a mate who is happy with themselves or with you, for that matter?

Two happy happy pair creation.

Take some time alone to know from you, your values, your emotions, and what is important to you. Enjoyed you! I love you! Built for you! Then get ready for the magic.

I love my life!! I love my family Sunday dinner! My perfect day includes walking on the beach. I love meeting my friends our lunch weekly. Rock climbing team joined rocks! We reconnect to my love of art, and drawing twice a week. Attitude of gratitude. The perfect partner for me laughs easily and often. Spend quality time together. My ideal partner listening with an open heart and mind. My ideal mate loves cooking and entertainment. My mate perfection out of bound after delimitation of healthy children. I love that my respect my need time alone. We enjoy taking pictures of nature together.

Valentin Cheri is connect to the love experts. It specializes in professional leadership and busy business owners love to find long-term enjoyment of happiness and success in personal and live as they do in their careers. Philosophy in Cheri love inspired design combined with strong supportive nature is reflected in her signature coaching programs. And believes everyone deserves love and loved unconditionally, to experience life with enthusiasm, happy and healthy relationships. Cheri feed for efforts to make sense of her marriage ended and relationships to get right, to be happy and find the right partner. It succeeded recently married her perfect mate. They want to show you how I did it, and how you, too, just like many men and women helped to find love. Visit http://cherivalentine.com/for a free 4 step to "attracting your perfect mate".

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Romance or Friendship? 3 EASY Ways to Find True Love (Even If You're JUST Friends Right Now)

Is it ROMANTIC or are you just simply friends? How can you tell what he's REALLY thinking, without having to beg, sound desperate or bother his friends? Are you sick and tired of trying to read his body language, or guess what his little code phrases mean, or even simply trying to intuit his intentions WITHOUT having to come right and ask what's up? And can you truly find love through friendship, or do you need to PUSH, bother or beg him for answers straight out of the gate to know where "this" is going... right away?

In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at a few simple ways to help a friendship BLOSSOM into a full fledged romance, and figure out what he REALLY wants, all at the very same time. Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Allow yourself to be VULNERABLE (it really DOESN'T hurt, I promise!)

Take some chances, and open up a bit. You don't have to embarrass yourself, look desperate or even be overly aggressive to let someone know you are interested in taking things in a more interesting direction. The truth is, he'll most likely be flattered... and appreciative that you find him attractive in a romantic way. But don't do this in a haphazard way... or you'll find yourself TOO vulnerable, making "in the moment" choices you may BOTH regret later!

Relax Your Expectations

Don't push for answers. If you get back a response, either verbally or physically that you DON'T expect or anticipate, don't jump to conclusions or assumptions about what that may (or may not) mean. The truth is, some of MY best and most memorable relationships started slowly... and from friendships that seemed "locked in plutonic" before they ever bloomed into real romance. Remember, if he's worth getting to know in an intimate way... the BEST path to passion is through an evolving friendship as well.

Do NOT play games (or buy into the BULL)

Be honest, open and genuine about how you feel. There is no "time limit" to tell someone something that comes from the heart. There is no rule-book... or blueprint for taking a friendship to the next level. The truth is, if you stay honest, open, and don't obsess about the relationship, you'll find that doors open that you may NOT have realized were there... and amazing things can happen, once they do!

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Test Your Love Compatibility: How to Know You Are 100% Right For Each Other Almost Immediately

Who else is just starting a new relationship, and is starting to really feel the "pitter patter" of passion? Are you really excited about the prospects that he (or she) MIGHT be the one? Are you nervous that there's going to be a shoe to drop, or you're going to find out too LATE that they're really NOT all that compatible after all? And like many of us, are you worried that's going to happen AFTER you've already fallen in love... or at least in LUST, and when it may be too late to back out easily without BREAKING a heart, or having YOURS broken in the process?

In this article we are going to talk about how to discover if your partner is right for you almost INSTANTLY, while using time tested albeit "weird" tools and techniques that 99% of relationships will never tap into it. (but should, and if they DID, there would be a whole lot LESS heartbreak in the world)

Curious to know more? Sounds great... but be prepared, these are NOT techniques for the meek, or the close minded..:-) Read on as we take a closer look below!

Energetic Compatibility Test:

What is it? Very simple. It's a timeless technique for comparing your AURA, or subtle energy field, to his. The truth is, whether you are a true blue believer, or die hard skeptic, we ALL have an emotional field which emits a certain amount energy that can be read. Science, while always skeptical of this... is now coming around and calling it "quantum energy" or "subtle energy". Psychics, mystics, astrologers and artists have called the very same thing your AURA for thousands of years..:-) Like it or not, in it's natural state, energy attracts it's equal. And there are thousands of qualified, insightful and AMAZING energy intuitives who can literally read your aura simply by listening to the sound of your voice. They can also tell you what is in your emotional energetic future, and what is currently in it's "field", which is a GREAT way of knowing if you've got authentic LOVE in your life, or just old fashioned bad luck.

(And don't laugh... there are PLENTY of serious scientific studies that validate what love intuitives have been saying for lifetimes!)

Astrological Compatibility

Believe me, a good astrological horoscope is an AMAZING tool for finding your soulmate... and for finding out if the partner in your life right now is IT! To be perfectly honest with you, even being a bit of a new age enthusiast, I was still a hard headed skeptic until I had THIS particular process done. To make a long story short, I had an astrological love reading done 10 years into a serious relationship... and all of the signs not only pointed to him being DEAD wrong for me, but suggested someone ELSE in my life was right! Suffice it to say, I obviously ignored this advice until one day I came home to find my man LONG gone... without even a note. (I did get a phone call a week later... after 10 years I guess he decided I deserved that..:-) Would you believe I bumped into the co-worker the astrologist "predicted" I would match with just 3 nights later while buying a new round of Kleenex to cry in? It's true... and MY happy story officially began on that very night!

Are these techniques weird and unorthodox?

Absolutely! Do they WORK like magic? You better believe they do. I truly believe that each of us has a unique karmic connection that we're HERE to discover, and as long as we keep our mind open, the UNIVERSE will conspire to help us find them! (but nothing happen will happen UNLESS you try!) If you are willing to be open minded and put your HEART on the line, you'll find that true LOVE will find you, almost 100% of the time, if you are open to let it in.

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Finding Mr, Mrs Or Ms Right - Be Passionate About You

So many men and women tell me they want a mate in their life. Some just do not want to be alone. Others think it will make their life easier. While many others just want to have someone with whom to share their life. How many of you have considered the possibility of sharing yourself? I believe at the deepest of levels we as humans, are made to connect and not to be alone. However, I also believe that in order to truly connect with another person, we must first be connected to ourselves. We must know who we are at all levels, accept and love what is there. It's not just me who believes this, ask any dating or relationship coaches, and they will tell you the same.

When we take the time to know what is important to us, to tap into our heart and embrace our passions, we have so much more to offer someone else. When we are willing to offer the whole of ourselves with honesty and trust, then we attract someone who also is willing to do the same. When we are living our lives fully, embracing all that life has to offer we are sending a message of happiness and gratitude to the world. The universe responds in kind. What you put your attention on grows stronger in your life, so if your attention is on lack, need, loneliness, rather than on contentment, acceptance, and passion then don't be surprised with the results.

Being alone is an opportunity to embrace the beauty of who you are, to see the gift of yourself, to enjoy your own company, to find what makes you tick, to discover what you are most passionate about in this life.

Being alone is a gift to yourself to fine-tune what it means to live your life whether alone or with another. If you do not enjoy your own company, how in the world do you expect someone else to enjoy you?

If you are bored and lonely and cannot see the joy in this moment regardless of what you are doing or who you are with, then what makes you think someone else can change that for you? When you are clear about who you are and what is important to you, and put attention on those things, your life will be fulfilling and rewarding.

When I was a teenager, I received a card with the following line included as part of the poem, "If you are not happy with what you've got, how can you be happy with more?" This makes so much sense to me and has been a reminder for me all these years to be present and grateful for whom I am and what I have whenever I find myself complaining.

Are you excited about sharing yourself with another who complements you, or are you desperate to share your life with someone? Can you see the difference between the two? In the first you are present, alive, whole, and very attractive, confident that you will wait for the right one. In the second you are sad, wanting, needing, and willing to take anyone. Who would you rather BEE- attractive and confident or needy and desperate? Conversely what kind of mate do you want to attract? Be the love you are seeking and you will find it.

If you are not happy with yourself and your life, how will you attract a mate who is happy with themselves or with you, for that matter?

Two happy people create a happy couple.

Take the time alone to get to know who you are, your values, your passions, and what is important to you. Enjoy you! Love you! Embrace you! Then get ready for magic.

I LOVE my life!! I love my family Sunday dinners! My perfect day includes walking on the beach. I love meeting my friends for our weekly lunch. The rock climbing group I joined rocks! I've reconnected to my love of art and sketch twice weekly. Attitude of Gratitude. The perfect partner for me laughs easily and often. We spend quality time together. My perfect partner listens with an open heart and mind. My perfect mate loves to cook and entertain. My perfect mate is an engaged parent, yet sets healthy boundaries for his kids. I love that my partner respects my need for alone time. We enjoy taking pictures of nature together.

Cheri Valentine is your love connection expert. She specializes in guiding busy professional leaders and business owners to find long lasting love to enjoy as much happiness and success in their personal lives as they do in their career. Cheri's philosophy inspired love by design combined with her strong, supportive nature is reflected in her signature coaching programs. She believes everyone deserves to love and be loved unconditionally, to experience life passionately and to forge happy and healthy relationships. Cheri's own efforts to make sense of her ended marriages and relationships fueled her determination to get it right, be happy and find the right partner. She has succeeded and recently married her perfect mate. She wants to show you how she did it, and how you can, too, just like the many men and women she has helped to find love. Visit http://cherivalentine.com/ for your FREE 4 step kit to Attract Your Perfect Mate.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Cheri_C_Valentine

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Romance or Friendship? 3 EASY Ways to Find True Love (Even If You're JUST Friends Right Now)

Is it ROMANTIC or are you just simply friends? How can you tell what he's REALLY thinking, without having to beg, sound desperate or bother his friends? Are you sick and tired of trying to read his body language, or guess what his little code phrases mean, or even simply trying to intuit his intentions WITHOUT having to come right and ask what's up? And can you truly find love through friendship, or do you need to PUSH, bother or beg him for answers straight out of the gate to know where "this" is going... right away?

In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at a few simple ways to help a friendship BLOSSOM into a full fledged romance, and figure out what he REALLY wants, all at the very same time. Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Allow yourself to be VULNERABLE (it really DOESN'T hurt, I promise!)

Take some chances, and open up a bit. You don't have to embarrass yourself, look desperate or even be overly aggressive to let someone know you are interested in taking things in a more interesting direction. The truth is, he'll most likely be flattered... and appreciative that you find him attractive in a romantic way. But don't do this in a haphazard way... or you'll find yourself TOO vulnerable, making "in the moment" choices you may BOTH regret later!

Relax Your Expectations

Don't push for answers. If you get back a response, either verbally or physically that you DON'T expect or anticipate, don't jump to conclusions or assumptions about what that may (or may not) mean. The truth is, some of MY best and most memorable relationships started slowly... and from friendships that seemed "locked in plutonic" before they ever bloomed into real romance. Remember, if he's worth getting to know in an intimate way... the BEST path to passion is through an evolving friendship as well.

Do NOT play games (or buy into the BULL)

Be honest, open and genuine about how you feel. There is no "time limit" to tell someone something that comes from the heart. There is no rule-book... or blueprint for taking a friendship to the next level. The truth is, if you stay honest, open, and don't obsess about the relationship, you'll find that doors open that you may NOT have realized were there... and amazing things can happen, once they do!

View the original article here

Test Your Love Compatibility: How to Know You Are 100% Right For Each Other Almost Immediately

Who else is just starting a new relationship, and is starting to really feel the "pitter patter" of passion? Are you really excited about the prospects that he (or she) MIGHT be the one? Are you nervous that there's going to be a shoe to drop, or you're going to find out too LATE that they're really NOT all that compatible after all? And like many of us, are you worried that's going to happen AFTER you've already fallen in love... or at least in LUST, and when it may be too late to back out easily without BREAKING a heart, or having YOURS broken in the process?

In this article we are going to talk about how to discover if your partner is right for you almost INSTANTLY, while using time tested albeit "weird" tools and techniques that 99% of relationships will never tap into it. (but should, and if they DID, there would be a whole lot LESS heartbreak in the world)

Curious to know more? Sounds great... but be prepared, these are NOT techniques for the meek, or the close minded..:-) Read on as we take a closer look below!

Energetic Compatibility Test:

What is it? Very simple. It's a timeless technique for comparing your AURA, or subtle energy field, to his. The truth is, whether you are a true blue believer, or die hard skeptic, we ALL have an emotional field which emits a certain amount energy that can be read. Science, while always skeptical of this... is now coming around and calling it "quantum energy" or "subtle energy". Psychics, mystics, astrologers and artists have called the very same thing your AURA for thousands of years..:-) Like it or not, in it's natural state, energy attracts it's equal. And there are thousands of qualified, insightful and AMAZING energy intuitives who can literally read your aura simply by listening to the sound of your voice. They can also tell you what is in your emotional energetic future, and what is currently in it's "field", which is a GREAT way of knowing if you've got authentic LOVE in your life, or just old fashioned bad luck.

(And don't laugh... there are PLENTY of serious scientific studies that validate what love intuitives have been saying for lifetimes!)

Astrological Compatibility

Believe me, a good astrological horoscope is an AMAZING tool for finding your soulmate... and for finding out if the partner in your life right now is IT! To be perfectly honest with you, even being a bit of a new age enthusiast, I was still a hard headed skeptic until I had THIS particular process done. To make a long story short, I had an astrological love reading done 10 years into a serious relationship... and all of the signs not only pointed to him being DEAD wrong for me, but suggested someone ELSE in my life was right! Suffice it to say, I obviously ignored this advice until one day I came home to find my man LONG gone... without even a note. (I did get a phone call a week later... after 10 years I guess he decided I deserved that..:-) Would you believe I bumped into the co-worker the astrologist "predicted" I would match with just 3 nights later while buying a new round of Kleenex to cry in? It's true... and MY happy story officially began on that very night!

Are these techniques weird and unorthodox?

Absolutely! Do they WORK like magic? You better believe they do. I truly believe that each of us has a unique karmic connection that we're HERE to discover, and as long as we keep our mind open, the UNIVERSE will conspire to help us find them! (but nothing happen will happen UNLESS you try!) If you are willing to be open minded and put your HEART on the line, you'll find that true LOVE will find you, almost 100% of the time, if you are open to let it in.

View the original article here