Senin, 20 Juni 2011

Longing: an extension of selfishness

Love, as it seems, is a word that is commonly so far less understood. It is not easy to define what love is all about. Perhaps it was easier to describe what does not. There are several shades of human personality ugly error interpreted as love or references. One of them is what is meant here-will be longing.

Amusing that an attempt to glorify longing to perpetuate the view that it is acceptable. Often these features, along with jealousy, measure the intensity of love or passion project. Rather than denounce, authoritarian tendencies that encouraged or sympathetic.

If love is what brings people together and enhances values empathy, understanding and coexistence, and should be something built bridges, and bring down the walls. Then, longing, can have nothing to do with love, because of the walls and their role in human relations is doomed to failure.

Love is more about giving and receiving everything from loneliness. One about editing and the other on the link. One seeks the pleasures and the other moved inward to outward. One allows you to breathe evenly outdoors. Chokes and strangles the other. No way could ever go together. Not love sequence where pet dogs with you all the time. That means. Love when you ' let go ', where you can stop crying foul when you can, with a smile, give yourself to exploitation, never mind.

Love is not merely a State of mind, and perspective. It was a sign of confidence and well-being. Selfless fills us in silence and peace. It seeks to impose. Also trying to persuade. Only helps us to see and accept people as, with all these errors. Encourages respectively transactions between people, and remaining games in the Gulf. Conversely, the desolation, the closed mentality. It's a selfish ambitions and fear; fear of about to lose something we cherish. It makes us bad guys and manipulation. Spoil the mind, and makes us to invent all sorts of dirty tricks to exercise control over persons or things you think we care and, indeed, feel insecure. And witness the growing crime in the name of love, and go to such extremes of suicide or murder, serious consequences could result longing to.

Love and loneliness refers to two different ways of responding to stimuli we receive from the world around us. They could have anything in common. We realize that the secret of happiness of humanity and even existence lies in discovering the nature of love and suffering. Any attempt to make this discovery by using tools that are incompatible with love not only useless but also foolish.

Sorambodi Ramakrishna
Freelance writer & educational adviser

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