Kamis, 16 Juni 2011

The gender trust

Trust is a tangible thing that makes working o working relationships, and reduce problems, and allows you to share your feelings fully, thoughts and feelings with a lover. You can buy just because never, and lost easily.
How maintenance and fix if necessary, between women and men trust?

On the basis of trust really four elements for assessing the risks we all unconsciously about our partner. This:

1. fidelity
Do you mean what you say? Or are you guilty of saying something without clear intention to follow through.

2. reliability
Says it will do something or be somewhere then or not? This can seem like a petty but you will subconsciously to your follow through. It's always best not to something that can be definitely will be able to do.

3. competence
This evaluation about whether they think you have the ability to do what you can.

4. care
Do you have other "good person" in the heart as much as your own when your decisions and actions? Most people quickly to pick up on this, though it does not explain what is wrong.

All of this risk assessment and take generally below the conscious mind and will be strongly influenced by any previous history between the peoples involved. The end result will be a gut feeling that amorphous you virtually impossible for your partner to discard if nothing out of the unconscious with new information indicating possible alternative.

So, how do you capture process when you made a mistake and lost the confidence of your loved ones?

Here's the deal! When you have done nothing less than brilliant (and us) first, admit to yourself. This is the hardest part. Don't snikili to hide or blame someone else, I think you got away with it, because it won't have. Confidence will be lost even if nothing is said publicly; once damaged confidence easily won't trust again. The only thing it has is clean and accept responsibility for your failure. Then, this is the most important part, and select how to handle similar cases in future. And be sure that, come hell or high water that you follow through. This is worthy of trust, and the only way to break through the risk assessment process, we have discussed above.

Remember that good deals with small disappointment can really build trust and a big one but will eventually destroy the relationship or take major changes in your part to move forward again.

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