This relationship advice for women is something that you would not come across in any of the popular women's magazines, purely because they typically write from a female point of view. I am a married man always looking to improve the relationship with my wife. My passion is in helping other women out there who are suffering in silence help bring their marriage back from the brink of extinction. A lot of women tend to be quite warm and compassionate. This isn't actually the best trait to have if you want to have a strong marriage. In fact, it has made men divorce their wives before (in extreme cases). I'll tell you how to be compassionate while still loved by your man.
1. Too Much Compassion
Compassion in itself is a fantastic trait to have. To have a big heart that can accommodate many people, views and other things you have a passion shows that you are very forgiving and tolerant.
It is for this reason however that your compassion may be destroying your marriage. If you are to tolerant and forgiving of your husband, he may inadvertently seek to manipulate and take advantage of this. This is of course an extreme case. He will at least feel too relaxed as a husband.
2. The Law Of Supply And Demand
This is where you have to basically be aware of the law of supply and demand. See, if you're too compassionate, your man will find it impossible to respect you. If I seem very sure of myself, that's because I am.
Who can respect a servant? A servant is someone who takes a lot of rubbish from their master. They have to accommodate his/her master's needs if they still want a salary. If you have too much room in your heart, your supply of compassion is too high.
3. Restricting Your Compassion
You basically have to ween your man off your compassion. If he drinks of it too frequently, he won't find any nourishment from it anymore.
Be strict with him once in a while. Say no. Tell him off. Make it clear to him that you are displeased with him and really be displeased. If you're faking it, he will know. We men need boundaries to respect you as our wives.
This relationship advice for women is applicable to many aspects of life but is particularly relevant to your relationship with your man. Compassion is a good thing, but if your heart is too accommodating, don't be too surprised if your man disappears one day.
Jack Keys is a married to his wife, Elle and has a beautiful baby daughter with her. His psychology degree, combined with his real-life experience in his own marriage has turned him into an accidental relationship adviser amongst his friends and colleagues.
He specializes in relationship advice for women and shares his knowledge with women who want to strengthen their relationship with their husband.
His latest 10-page report talks about how to get more love and respect from your husband, written especially for women who are finding that their man is falling out of love with them.
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