Okay lady's, let's set the stage to establish some momentum of the relationship. So, you've just left your office for lunch then out of the corner of your eye you notice a fine specimen of a man. Suddenly the temperature surges to 90 degrees, everything seems to be played in slow motion and in your head you hear the seductive notes of "between the sheets" being played. You take a glance in the nearby window just to double check you're all that. You steady your nerves gain your composure muster up a confident stride and prepare for sparks to fly.
Both your eyes meet and lock into a stare when suddenly you notice an attractive female walking hastily towards him. Your eyes drop and you think oh, why am I so unlucky. You're so consumed in reprimanding yourself you didn't notice him look back and smile.
Annoyed with yourself you decide some retail therapy is in order. The song still playing in your head you V line for the Negligee store. There, you see a black silk one that is to die for and you think yes, I'll have this. But then you remember when am going to wear it anyway. Instead you decide to pass on the impulse purchase and indulge in some comfort food.
Moving three weeks forward... you're out jogging one evening, given up on ever seeing him ever again, when you became distracted by a disturbance behind you. Only to turn around and bump straight into "Mr between the sheets" himself. He came for a walk to clear his head regarding decisions he needed to make. Embarrassed, you apologize and before long you are both conversing as if you were old time friends. You both exchanged numbers and keep in touch.
Its been 6 months now since you have been getting to know each other and you think finally I have met a really nice guy. But now you are not sure if he likes you as much as you like him. As by now you are definitely feeling a bond developing but you are unsure if he feels the same way. It's hard to tell as some times it appears that way, but at other times it doesn't. You maybe feeling a bit confused as you are picking up mixed messages. You want to know for sure he feels the same way before letting your feelings show.
But before we look at whether or not he likes you let's considered whether or not you really want him to like you. Have you decided what it is you want from the relationship? Explored compatibility and whether or not it is worth a long term emotional investment? Or are you just going along for the ride and just hoping it all works out?
If you're having a good feeling about this guy after looking at it from practical perspective and he ticks most of your boxes let's look closer. Generally speaking men guard the door to their innermost soul very well they sometimes slip up and then they recompose. This causes a lot of confusion and contributes to the mixed message signals you maybe receiving.
Here are 3 Tips that Tell if a Guy Likes You?
Tip1
He asks a lot of questions if he sees you being friendly towards another guy. This could indicate that he is marking and protecting his territory. This could mean he is very interested and making sure there are no unpleasant surprises.
Tip2
He calls often and isn't comparing how often you have or have not called. This shows he is thinking about you and is confident within himself. This could be a sign that he is getting to know your schedule, likes and dislikes, pet peeves etc.
Tip3
He worries if he has not heard from you. This is a sign he is definitely bonding, it shows he cares for and about you. He now knows your schedule and your normal behavior and is able to spot something outside the ordinary and shows concern for your welfare.
These are a few tell tale signs that will help you know if a guy really likes you.
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