Losing the one you love doesn't exactly mean you lost. You lose when you give up. To win your ex-boyfriend back when he's moved on could be a challenge but everything is possible when you try. I've been in your same situation and it wasn't until I challenged myself, that I then I realized I won what I once thought I lost. It's like the saying you don't know unless you try, right?
1- The first step to getting the one you love back is somehow making him still believe he still wants you. If this doesn't work there are definitely much more tactics you can try from here.
2- One of the most beneficial things you can try is to start a friendship with him. Become really good friends. Show him what a good friend you can be by showing him you understand how he feels, show him a fun side of you, crack funny jokes, make him laugh, and even invite him for coffee sometime. He may start to wonder at this point that he may want you again.
3- When you speak to your ex-boyfriend make sure you're extra sweet and kind. Don't play games, trying to act hard to get. You want to him to want you still. Don't make yourself totally available either, do give him space. You do want him to want you as well, so let him have a chance to think about you.
4- At this point you've shown him what a good time he can have with you, even if it's a friendship for now. You want him to know you're still available but slightly keep your distance. Hang out with you friends and have a good time. This will make him wonder about you, and he may slightly start to feel jealousy. This good sign because he will start to really ask him why he is feeling this way.
5- When he does ask you about your weekends and what you have been up to, be sincere and honest. Tell him you miss him, but don't make it sound like you're desperate. You want him to know you still care but also that you're still having fun too. He will see you're confident and realize he doesn't have you.
6- Remind him of the good times you had together. Don't talk about anything negative or start any drama. Bring up a favorite spot you both had and enjoyed being there together. Also, bring up the first time you met and how you feel in love. This will trigger emotions, good emotions of course.
These are just ideas that helped me get back with my ex-boyfriend once I thought I had lost him. Now we're back together and I could say we have the best relationship and he's truly my best-friend!
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